Friend, Me? Sure! *wink*

So trying to get back into the dating scene has made me realize how long I've been out of it. 


The last time I dated, I did not have text messaging. 


You must be thinking that I am either exaggerating or had a track phone forever and that, my friend, is not the case. It's just been that long. Being a good sport about everything (now) with dating, I'm jumping in full force. I'm  Match.com-ing, Facebooking, texting and "friending." However, what I'm not doing is going on dates!! I know I have to roll with the punches and keep up with the times, but what the fuck ever happened to happily ever after? Or, at least a regular call on the phone with a "Hey. Wanna go see a movie?" Now it's a wink, a nudge, a "friend me," "hit me up" (which apparently means to text someone,) but for the fact of the matter...no one is really getting to the root of everything. People want companionship with a real person, with a voice and a 98.6 degree touch. 


Like I said, I'm being a good sport about all of this and rolling with it. I will say getting a text in the morning to see if you had your coffee fix yet or just to say hi is kind of nice. It's nice to know someone is thinking about you. Even a wink is okay. However, what is not okay is that it is so easy to cut someone off with the space of cyber, satellite, or whatever mystical, magical ways the world communicates without personalization. If you wink at me, and I wink back...you started it. 


And so the search goes on for Mr. Right. I don't really want Mr. Right Now, Mr. Temporary or Mr. I Have So Much of My Own Shit, I Can't Blah, Blah... In the meantime, I will continue to blog this out into the world of Mystical, Magical Space.

Peeking out...

I've been dormant for a while, but the resurrection is almost uncontrollable right now. I suppose all people and thus blogs of people go through this, but I'm pretty sure I'm ready to bring back The Girl. More to come...